I have made some changes to my son Kennys memorial so that I could put (in my own words) the feelings I have about the loss of many of my family members.
Yes without any doubt I would have to say that the greatest loss is losing my Son Kenny.
But that does not mean that the pain of losing my Mother, Father, Brothers, Sisters & Nephew are not great losses.
I would never judge the grief someone goes through when they lose a loved one.
If I never lost a child, then that pain would be one I would not (nor want to) understand in comparison to other losses.
So maybe the greatest loss of my life then would be my Mom or maybe losing 2 brothers 5 months apart,and both were "too young". Or maybe my nephew who died just 8 months after losing my Mom. My sister Eileen lost her son Joey (my nephew) just 8 months after our Mother died in 1993. I felt so bad for her to have to go through the pain of losing a Son & Mom in less then a year.
This site is set up to Remember my family...
I created it with respect for those in heaven,
and for those still here on earth.
TO MY FAMILY:I hope that everyone in my family understands that the memories here on and throughout this site are "My Memories" of OUR Loved Ones. As a Daughter,Sister,Aunt,Neice and Mother,these are my memories.
If you want to share a memory of OUR loved ones here please either call me (you all have my #),email me Or just write your memory in the guest book that I have put one each page and I will copy it onto the page you want it on OK?
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"DEATH LEAVES A HEARTACHE NO ONE CAN HEAL
LOVE LEAVES A MEMORY NO ONE CAN STEAL"
From A Headstone In Ireland
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